RjAndie
The key word here is "allow"
I have no right to allow / not allow my boyfriend anything. He is an individual, I'm an individual and both of us have the right to have female/male friends. I'm not his parent and neither is he mine - we are partners.
If I ever found myself being suspicious ir thinking that there is something else going on the problem would be me not him. If two people in a relationship trust each other and one side feels jealous / doesn't trust the other side, then it's time to sit down and talk things out to see what is the real problem. In a lot of cases, it's insecurity if a guy is jealous that some will take his girlfriend or if a girl of jealous of every girl that talks to her boyfriend.
In other words, yes, when I start a…